Time — The Ultimate Trickster

Time – The Ultimate Trickster

On this April Fool’s Day, it is genuinely appropriate to discuss the ultimate trickster of them all — Time. Just what the heck is this earthly construct called “time”. Time – measured by today’s atomic clocks at over nine billion cesium energy jumps per second. There is more to this “tick-tock, tick-tock” trickster however than meets the senses. Have you felt that experience of time “flying by” when you involved in an activity that you enjoy doing and are good at. The greater the enjoyment, the faster time speeds up. Conversely, when you are doing something that you have zero interest in or find distasteful or boring, time then slows down to a snail’s pace. You look at the clock and it seems like invisible gremlins are holding back the hands of the clock. Yes, time is indeed the ultimate trickster.

The Eternal Now

According to Einstein’s Theory of Special Relativity, time slows down or speeds up depending how fast something is moving. The ultimate conclusion of this is that time itself would stop if you could hypothetically move at the speed of light. On earth, time remains a constant, neither speeding up nor slowing down but our perception of it varies widely. It has been postulated that when your spirit or soul leaves your body and proceeds to wherever it belongs, time, as such, ceases to exist. Everything happens in the “now moment.” Time does not travel forward from a point in the past to a point in the future. The present merely changes. Everything happens in the now. In the 1300’s, the theologian, philosopher and mystic Meister Eckhart wrote, ” There exists only the present instant…a Now which always and without end is itself new. There is no yesterday nor any tomorrow, but only Now, as it was a thousand years ago and as it will be a thousand years hence.”

Tick-Tock, Tick-Tock

When your soul moves on from earth, there will be no calendars, no clocks, no time. No placing an X over a day on the calendar or tearing off a page from a calendar for a month that is over. Here on earth however that would not work. There must be the “tick-tock, tick-tock” of time in order to allow you to measure your movements, your actions, your life. You can do your very best to live fully in the current moment but you are always aware of time past and time ahead. Even while writing this post, time was playing games with me. I found myself looking down at my watch and thinking to myself “What – 7:30 already! That’s ridiculous. It was 6:00 just a few minutes ago!” Another thing about time that I have discovered is that the older you get, the faster time zips by. The years crawl by when you are young, but then, each successive decade of life, time goes by faster and faster. When you hit your sixties, time appears to perversely speed up exponentially, seemingly to get you to your ultimate demise all that much quicker. So what are you to do with this thing called “time”.

Improve Your Relationship With Time

One of the wisest men in the history of the world, King Solomon, may hint at the answer. From the Book of Ecclesiastes, Chapter 3, Verses 12 and 13 (ESV): “I perceived that there is nothing better for them than to be joyful and to do good as long as they live, that everyone should eat and drink and take pleasure in his toil.” The philosopher and a-theist Albert Camus ironically comes to somewhat the same conclusion in “The Myth of Sisyphus” when he states that Sisyphus can only be free when he comes into harmony with his circumstances. Whether you are involved in a major life undertaking or cleaning your ceramic toilet with a scrub brush, focus on what you are doing in the “right now”. Do it the very best you know how to do it. It doesn’t totally take away the mischievous trickery of time, but it does help to “take the edge off”. Plus, in the world of manifesting, learning how to focus on feeling as if your desire is real, right now, is definitely “where it’s at”.

Overlooked Household Poison — Throw It Out Now

” Danger Will Robinson “

Did you ever watch the tv show “Lost in Space” originally aired in the mid-sixties? The two things I remember about it was that Professor Smith guy (prototype of today’s politicians) and the stupid looking robot they had. Billy Mumy played “Will Robinson”, one of the Robinson family that was piloting a space ship that was lost in outer space. Whenever Will Robinson was about to encounter a dangerous situation, the robot would wave its arms and shout “Danger Will Robinson, Danger.” Well, if you had that robot today he would be saying the same thing to you regarding a very toxic poison that you probably have within your household. It is not in the medicine cabinet. It is not in the basement. It is not in the attic. Nor is it in your garage or shed. It is inside — you. It is called “regret”. Every time that you make the choice to re-activate it, you succeed only in re-infecting yourself and causing harm.

What Is Regret ?

Just what is “regret”. It has been defined as “feeling grief, depression or disappointment over something that you have done or have left undone.” I have always kind of distrusted people who say that they have no regrets. I feel that they are not really telling the truth and display narcissistic tendencies. In Romans 7:15 (NLT), the apostle Paul states, ” I really don’t understand myself, for I want to do what is right, but I don’t do it. Instead, I do what I hate.” I guess it’s all part of being a fallible, mortal human being.

Learning Is Magic

Learning is a magical thing. To gain knowledge that will help you to live a richer, fuller life is the essence of learning. If you can learn from the negative results of things that you did (or neglected to do) — if you make effort to apply to the right here and right now what you have learned from the past — then you will be successful in using past mistakes as lessons to create (manifest) good things in the right here and right now — for yourself as well as for others. If you choose to rehash your past mistakes over and over and over again in the form of regret, then you have not learned a damn thing. You will only be successful in creating more bad things in the right here and right now — for yourself and others. Is that what you desire? You would be similiar to the junkie who regrets the addiction but keeps shooting the poison into their veins nonetheless. To paraphrase Clemenza from the movie The Godfather, “Leave the regrets, take the learning”.

The $64,000 Question

So now we get down to the “$64,000 Question” (how’s that for “old school”): how do you stop yourself — from wallowing in counter-productive, toxic regret and start yourself living free from errors and mistakes of the past? To have regrets is one thing — to wallow in them is totally another. When they come into your thoughts, say “Fine. OK You’re here to remind me of something I already very well know but I just don’t have time for you now. I’m busy fulfilling this dream I have with what’s left of my life. So, no disrespect mister regret, but don’t let the door hit you on the way out.” The eternal “now” is the only sure thing that you can work with. Every minute of your life, a “new now” comes along. If you keep grieving over past mistakes you will only succeed in perpetuating them.

What Can You Do About It ?

Sit down and start thinking of what you did in your life that was right and resulted in positive results. Walk away from everything else in your life for a few solid hours and really think deeply about it. When you have come up with something that you can “really hold on to”, write it down. Put it on an index card. Write it on a poster and hang it on your wall. Hang it around your nose if you have to. Scripture states, “Write them on your doorframes of your houses and on your gates” (Deuteronomy 6:9 NIV). Whatever manner you choose, keep these things in your mind. Allow the good feeling that they produce to dominate your feelings. Regrets will then have no room to maneuver and along with Elvis, will “have now left the building”. And YOU will then be in a better place to help yourself and help others also. Isn’t that a good thing? There will be more about this whole topic in a future post.